Observing Communication
At the store, while doing my grocery shopping I over heard a conversation between a child who is about three year old and his mother. The mother spoke in an angry tone, where he swore at the child for not keeping still, and keep touching everything. The mother told her I swear I will spank you in from of everyone if you do not listen. Earlier, the child was trying to make a conversation with his mother, but the mother told him that his distracting, that is when he started to act out. When the mother threatened him, he talked back to his mother. The boy responded to his mother in a tone that is so disrespectful.
I notice that although the mother seem to show that she is in control and has the authority, the child does not respect her in a manner of communicating with her because of how she talks to him. The child talks back because that is what they do when they have disagreement. Both mother and child argue back and forth without anyone listening and other talking, and vice versa. What we say and do to our children, most likely what they will do back to us.
If the mother gave the time to listen to her son, hear what he wanted to say, he would not be acting out. Even with a hyper active child, going to the grocery store, ask them to help to make use of their energy and active self. There are so many strategies that parents can use to keep their children from misbehaving and teach them appropriate manners.
“Anti-bias work is essentially optimistic work about the future of our children” . In a anti-bias setting, I believe that it is important to highlight the different diversity in the classroom. If there are no evident diversity, create and share the most common diversity in the classroom. The work of anti-bias education is integration of working together with the families to understand their diversity rather than make assumptions.
Setting:
- Classroom will be an open, safe and welcoming environment for everyone.
- The classroom will present as a setting where parents are comfortable to ask for resources from teachers and to clarify any misunderstanding. The setting will make parents and families feel safe and welcome to leave their children and know that they do not need to worry too much.
- The environment will be accessible for everyone regardless of their needs.
- The setting will be an easy access for families and children with disabilities such as wheelchairs.
- Classroom will provide diverse books and activities that children and families can engage in
- Diverse books and activities can help families and children understand and be exposed to other cultures and diversities.
- The classroom will present posters and other graphic arts of diversity.
- Posters and arts that are diverse can help families understand images in different ways and learn diverse language. For example graphic images of tools and equipment around the classroom is stated in English and Spanish.
These setting are set to increase diversity in the environment and setting. As :anti-bias work provides teachers a way to examine and transform their understanding of children’s lives and also do self-reflective work to more deeply understand their own lives”. We try and present a setting where we can stop and think of how we want it to be presented to ourselves as diverse family. If I was from a diverse family, how would I want the classroom setting to be like, to represent and to be presented.
