Observing Communication

Observing Communication

At the store, while doing my grocery shopping I over heard a conversation between a child who is about three year old and his mother. The mother spoke in an angry tone, where he swore at the child for not keeping still, and keep touching everything. The mother told her I swear I will spank you in from of everyone if you do not listen. Earlier, the child was trying to make a conversation with his mother, but the mother told him that his distracting, that is when he started to act out. When the mother threatened him, he talked back to his mother. The boy responded to his mother in a tone that is so disrespectful. 

I notice that although the mother seem to show that she is in control and has the authority, the child does not respect her in a manner of communicating with her because of how she talks to him. The child talks back because that is what they do when they have disagreement. Both mother and child argue back and forth without anyone listening and other talking, and vice versa. What we say and do to our children, most likely what they will do back to us. 

If the mother gave the time to listen to her son, hear what he wanted to say, he would not be acting out. Even with a hyper active child, going to the grocery store, ask them to help to make use of their energy and active self. There are so many strategies that parents can use to keep their children from misbehaving and teach them appropriate manners.